| PHOTO: | Women have varied reasons why they get involved with older married men |
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Nancy Roxanne
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Jun,17-2016 20:24:31
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Over the past few days, everyone and their mother have had a lot to say about 'sponsors' and homewreckers. While we may not agree with such kind of relationships, it is not our place to judge and slut-shame. We need to get off our high horses and stop bashing women for how they choose to live their lives.
Dating an older married man is not the worst thing in the world. Women have varied reasons why they get involved with older married men. The truth is, besides the obvious, there are some real perks that come with dating an older married man. Below are some of the benefits:
He is financially secure
Yes, I won't lie and say that those relationships are not financially motivated, but what is wrong with that? Let's face it; we all want the best the world has to offer. Life is too short to waste on a perpetual down and out 20--something who insists on splitting a Sh1,000 bill.
In this day and age, financial stability is of utmost importance and should take precedence over other qualities like age, looks and marital status of a potential partner. Younger, single men are still trying to figure their life out. Why wait when there is a better, more sophisticated gentleman who is available for a fling? An older man will change your lifestyle and give you the wealth most people admire.
He won't disappoint in bed
Sex, like wine, gets better with age. While most people want to make fun of young girls sleeping with men who are twenty--plus years their senior, these girls know the benefits they are reaping in the sack. You just keep tweeting about vitambis and wrinkly balls while the 'sugar babe' is getting off every time she has sex with her sponsor. It is a proven fact that older men make better lovers. While your virile, hot--blooded 20-something year old will only deliver five minutes of mediocre sex in ridiculous positions, an older man knows his business and will take his time and leave you feeling satisfied.
Great conversationalist
20--somethings are a bore. An older man has experienced the world more and will have a lot of interesting and exciting things to talk about compared to your college guy, who is only interested in talking about drinking sprees and sex escapades.
An older man is knowledgeable and one can learn a lot of from him. He is well travelled and has a been--there-done--that attitude that is quite alluring. He knows the best restaurants and the best vacation spots, so you are always guaranteed the best of everything. He can also give you good advice on finances and other aspects of life.
No pressure in the relationship
Dating an older married man means no pressure and headaches that come with a normal relationship. There will be no jealousy issues because you both know where you stand in each other's life. The relationship is all about fun and there is nothing wrong with wanting a little fun. You get to do your own thing and enjoy your life while enjoying being pampered, with amazing sex as a great bonus. Now that's a win--win!
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